And finally, one fandom-wide request: be kind to one another. Be patient when you can be. Be firm when you must be. But be kind. Fandom has always had its problems, but they've become both particularly visible and widely distributed and particularly vicious over the last several years. Fandom should be fun, and it should be welcoming, and it should leave people better off than they were without it. I don't know how to fix any of the problems except to be persistently, belligerently kind.
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